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Thursday, February 19, 2009

CSPAS Conference - Toronto On March 27-29

This is an update on the upcoming CSPAS Symposium to be held in Toronto ON on Friday March 27-29, 2009.     Here is Press Release:
TORONTO, Feb. 13 /CNW/ - The first Canadian International Symposium for Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) will be held in Toronto at the Toronto Metro Convention Centre from March 27-29, 2009. Speakers from the fields of psychology, family law, and mediation will be making presentations to attorneys and mental health professionals. Parents whose children suffer from this mental health condition are very welcome to attend to conference.
"Parents that abuse children with parental alienation are a danger to our entire society," said Joe Goldberg, Host and Founder of the symposium. "There are literally hundreds of thousands of children who are victims of parental alienation abuse and family law attorneys and mental health professionals are the only ones who can rescue them.  This symposium will provide the information on how to best protect these children."
Participants to this three day symposium will hear such topics discussed as: 'Mediation Strategies in Managing PAS Disputes,' 'Treatment for Alienated Children,' and 'Doing what is Right for the Children, and Knowing When to do it.'   Speakers include: Amy Baker, Ph.D., a prominent psychologist in developmental psychology, Pamela Stuart-Mills Hoch, M.A., and Bob Hoch, M.A. co-founders of the Rachel Foundation for Family Reintegration, and David L. Levy, J.D., a pioneer in the field of children's rights. With over twenty speakers in attendance, everyone will come away with new knowledge about how children are being psychologically abused by a parent, and how it can be prevented.  For more info go to: www.cspas.ca.
I highly recommend it!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Amy J. BAKER Lecture - 2007 Dec 27

Lecture about her (then new) book "Breaking the Ties that Bind: Adult children of PAS",  including 10 minutes of "tips for Targeted Parents" at the end of 50 minutes presentation.

The reason for her study was to help answer the questions "Will I ever get them back?", "How can I speed it up?" and "What are the consequences of PAS?".

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

"PAS does not exist" says President of Cdn Psychologists Association

CODE RED - Action Alert

Yesterday, Mon Feb 2, 2009 CBC Radio1 broadcast a segment about PAS given the recent blockbuster PAS "deprogramming" decision by Justice Faye MCWATT of Ontario.  The reporter interviewed an anonymous father who's case is still before the courts and got a comment about the challenge of "de-programming" from Dr. Richard WARSHUK - author of "Divorce Poison" who was also speaking at the Ontario Bar Association Conference in Toronto.   However for the CON view he interviewed Dr. Catherine M. LEE, President of the Canadian Psychological Association in Ottawa, ON who claims that "PAS does not exist".  The reporter ends with "the cure may be worse than the disease".  

Please take some time to listen to broadcast clip and contact Dr. LEE (catherine.lee@uottawa.ca)  to tell her what you think of her comment.   Perhaps contacting the other members of the Canadian Psychological Association Board of Directors is also opportune. Here is the link.  http://www.cpa.ca/aboutcpa/boardofdirectors.


Monday, February 2, 2009

Looking for Volunteers - PAAD Alberta = Sat April 25, 2009

Last year, with the help of the Parental Alienation Awareness Organization (PAAO) we held the 1st Parental Alienation Awareness Day (PAAD) Event in Edmonton. Yes, it was a modest affair, cobbled together at the last minute - but I hope others across the province will join us to mark this day with their own event on April 25 2009!

We are looking for volunteers to initiate a PAAD Event in Alberta community's or join one nearby. An event can be as simple or as complicated as you want (and your budget allows - as we have no funding, but we accept contributions). Our objective is to educate the general public about PA but how you do that is up to you.

Last year wasn't fancy. We set-up a display table with a PAAO Banner, various PAS reference, books, replayed some DVD's on the laptop, asked for petition signatures and began handing out (b&w photocopied) PAAO pamphlets at Edmonton City Hall Square (Mayor Mandel declared PAAD Officially) and outside the Legislature on that cold April day. Alot of people welcomed the opportunity to learn about PAS. It is an issue that many struggle to understand.

Since that event we have gathered 47 supporters across the province. They include many targeted parents, some "stranded" grandparents, adult "survivors" of PAS, Second Wives and others. Let's take advantage of recent legal developments in Ontario and media coverage of Alex Baldwin's book to focus attention on PAS and PA behaviours.

By concentrating our message about PAS for ONE DAY GLOBALLY we hope to breach the wall of official indifference about such child abuse. 

To volunteer, please sign-in using this form.   Our success depends on having "slack" resources as  not every community can support an Event.   Since your candour will not be ruthlessly exploited please be generous with your intentions.   We hope to have Event Leaders/ Locations
after Feb 27 and updates will be emailed as required.   Non-Alberta volunteers can check for other Events at www.PAawarenessDAY.org.

Regards,
Christopher JONES
Team Leader - Alberta
E albertapaao [at] mail.com


Saturday, January 3, 2009

Welcome to our new blog!

The "time has come (the walrus said)" for a blog by Alberta PAAO.

I am just waiting until everything is properly arranged and hope to be up and running within a month.

This blog is a natural evolution of a process that began a year ago when Shelly JONES (no relation) and I joined forces to stage PAAD 2008 in Edmonton. Before we knew it - PAAO Alberta was created!

We are committed to improving awareness about Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) and PA Behaviours (PAB) in Alberta.   We will do this by promoting awareness about Parental Alienation and acting as a network for Resources and Events that may be of interest to Albertans. 

Regards,
Christopher JONES

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Bill 211 - DOCUMENTATION OF CHILD ACCESS EXCHANGE ACT

Mrs. Alana DELONG, MLA for Calgary - Bow has proposed this Personal Members Bill 211 THE DOCUMENTATION OF CHILD ACCESS EXCHANGE ACT.  

The bill received 2nd Reading in the Alberta Legislature on Monday Dec 1, 2008 at 1730h.

Here is the video link for House Proceedings on Dec 1, 2008 (this requires Windows Media Player to be enabled in your browser).  The specific debate on PMB 211 begins at the 3h25m15s mark.   And here is link to Hansard hard copy (go to p 29/36 which is p2155).

Because the House is about to recess for Xmas, the bill will die on the order paper but Justice Minister Alison REDFORD informed the house she intends to adopt it as a Government Bill in the Spring session.

This bill is intended to formalize a protocol that allows divorced or separated parents (or legal guardians) to document an exchange of children as per instructions in parenting orders.   Currently, when one or both parents do not cooperate on respecting such exchanges a child is denied the opportunity to spend designated time with a parent.  This act will establish a responsible person and procedure to document that such exchanges have taken place and will be admissible as evidence in Court. 

Bill 211 will also expand the number of exchange locations and recorders to include, Day Care Centers, Schools, Doctors or Child Psychologists and even Churches.   These are distinctly different from those special situations where families are dealing with domestic violence.  Six specially designated exchange centers have already been established in major towns accross the province to manage such supervised visits and designated high conflict exchanges.  Otherwise, many families meet at RCMP stations.   Obviously, these high-conflict locations are unsuitable for the vast majority of divorced or seperated families.

I suggest this legislation will be useful to PAS impacted families.  Click here to find your own MLA contact info or link here to search.

Friday, September 19, 2008

Tonight (Friday Sept 19) - ABC's 20/20 will be running a segment on Child Custody.

Tonight - September 19, 2008 10:00pm ET 

ABC's 20/20 will be running a segment on Divorce and Child Custody. 
As many of you are probably aware Alec Baldwin's new book "Promises to 
Ourselves" is scheduled for release next week.  The segment tonight 
will include comments from Baldwin.  Check here for more info 
http://abcnews.go.com/2020. 


[transcribed from original Google Groups website on May 26, 2014]

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Fwd: Article on Vellacott's election race

Article on Maurice VELLACOTT's RACE
"He hopes to shift the focus to promote his campaign to change divorce
laws to enshrine the principle of equal parenting. Currently, divorce
laws are stacked against fathers, Vellacott said."

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Saskatoon Star Phoenix - September 17, 2008
http://www.canada.com/saskatoonstarphoenix/news/third_page/story.html?id
=649b5a0f-91e8-46a9-9a94-ecdf64823151

Challengers not deterred by long odds
By David Hutton

Patricia Zipchen senses an opportunity as she approaches an older
two-storey home adjacent to City Hospital. It's the Liberal candidate's
first stop in an afternoon of campaigning and the house's lawn and
windows are covered with signs for Clint Davidson, her NDP opponent in
Saskatoon-Wanuskewin. "Well, this should be fun," she said, laughing.
She marches up to the door but is intercepted by the owner, a
middle-aged woman and mental health-care worker who's taking her two
dogs for a walk. The fast-talking Zipchen quickly highlights her close
relationship with Mayor Don Atchison and her history of fighting for
Saskatoon's smoking ban, then moves to some light chit chat about mutual
friends. "Can I count on your vote?" Zipchen asked. The woman, in a
hurry to start her walk, takes the campaign pamphlets, but remains
unconvinced. "Maybe if I had two votes," she said as she waved goodbye.

Taking out incumbent Conservative Maurice Vellacott in
Saskatoon-Wanuskewin is going to be a formidable task. The key strategic
concern of the pack chasing Vellacott is the vote split on the
centre-left, so wooing voters from the NDP is one of her main focuses,
Zipchen says. "I have a great deal more experience to offer," she said,
comparing herself with Davidson. "I've been telling everyone that a vote
for the NDP is a vote for the Conservatives."

Last week, while the NDP and Liberal candidates in the riding spent the
day door-knocking, Vellacott, 53, had just finished setting up the phone
line at his campaign office and was still dealing with constituent
issues left over from before the writ dropped. "I always joke that I
have two jobs ... I'm working on constituent stuff which (the other
candidates) don't have to do ... so they always get a head start," says
Vellacott, relaxing on a newly installed sofa in his Circle Drive
campaign office. Vellacott won by nearly 4,000 votes in 1997 and went on
to win by 9,000 votes in 2000, 5,000 votes in 2004 and 9,000 votes again
in 2006 despite high-profile candidates running for the NDP and the
Liberals. The riding is now a Conservative stronghold with Vellacott's
popularity in the faith-based community and the overwhelming support for
the Conservatives in the riding's rural areas.

This time, too, the competition is less politically experienced. In the
last election, the Liberals ran Chris Axworthy for a second time while
the NDP countered with former Saskatoon mayor Jim Maddin. In this race,
Vellacott is up against comparative political newcomers: Part-time cook
and corrections officer Davidson, 36, of the NDP and Zipchen, 67, of the
Liberals, who is well-known locally for her anti-smoking advocacy but
has no experience in federal politics. The Green party has nominated
Tobi-Dawne Smith, 31, a dog trainer campaigning primarily on a platform
of eliminating legislation that targets certain breeds of dogs.

In the past, those opposing Vellacott have run on the notion he has done
little for the riding since he's been in office other than promote his
socially conservative views. In the last election, the campaign became
heated after a Liberal campaign worker phoned a call-in show on cable
television and made accusations of Vellacott that prompted a lawsuit.
This time, though, his opposition seems less willing to resort to
personal barbs and name-calling. "I won't attack Mr. Vellacott," Zipchen
said. "There are a lot of other issues." That suits Vellacott just fine,
he says. He hopes to shift the focus to promote his campaign to change
divorce laws to enshrine the principle of equal parenting. Currently,
divorce laws are stacked against fathers, Vellacott said. "Every
candidate for every election I've ever had has crabbed about Vellacott
didn't do this or that, it's stock and trade. ... But that hasn't
worked. Everyone has tried to use it and it's time to try something
else."

For Davidson, the challenge is making the transition from a
behind-the-scenes campaign manager and organizer to the party's
frontman. He's helped manage several NDP campaigns across the country in
the last decade but this is the first time he's taken a shot at public
office. Door-knocking off 33rd Street last week, he forgot several times
to take down updated voter information. "The organizer in me is getting
frustrated with the candidate in me," he joked.

He hopes to get lower gas prices by prosecuting oil companies that
collude on price increases, an issue he's sure to hear about
door-knocking, he said. He's travelled to the front lines of picket
lines in the riding to show his support for striking workers. "Here are
these employers making millions and millions in profit," he said "I feel
for the workers ... they need to be getting more."

Reducing pressure on the health-care system is her main priority,
Zipchen said. Her brother and sister died recently from cancer and she
believes the federal government can play a stronger role in combating
chronic illnesses.

Smith hopes to bring some awareness to the little-known issue of dog
breed specific legislation in Canada, such as a law in Ontario that bans
new pit bulls and orders existing ones to be sterilized. She's close to
the issue, as she spends her days training dogs to aid people with
disabilities and teaching dogs to do everything from dialing 911 to
doing laundry and retrieving medication. "The dogs don't need to be
punished based on their breed," she said. "The owners do."

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Saskatoon-Wanuskewin

This riding is composed of the northwest part of Saskatoon and rural
areas to the north and west of the city, including Leask, Rosthern,
Warman, Martensville and Radisson. The riding's population is around
72,000, according to the last census.

Clint Davidson, NDP: Cook and corrections officer from Blaine Lake.
Lives in Fairhaven.

Tobi-Dawne Smith, Green: A disability rights advocate and dog trainer.
Lives in Mayfair.

Maurice Vellacott, Conservative: A former pastor and health-care worker.
Lives in Corman Park.

Patricia Zipchen, Liberal: A retired nurse and anti-smoking advocate.
Lives in East College Park.

Riding politics: The incumbent, Maurice Vellacott, first won the seat in
1997 with the Reform party. In 2006, as a Conservative, he beat Liberal
Chris Axworthy by 9,098 votes.

Online lawn signs: Patricia Zipchen of the Liberals leads the way with
58 Facebook supporters, followed by the NDP's Clint Davidson with 32, as
of Tuesday morning. Tobi-Dawne Smith, the Green party candidate, has
nine Facebook supporters but also runs a popular dog-training advice
website, noselicks.com. Maurice Vellacott is old-school with no Facebook
profile. Unlike the last campaign, there seem to be no anti-Vellacott
websites.

(c) The StarPhoenix (Saskatoon) 2008
(c) 2005 - 2008 Canwest Digital Media, a division of Canwest Publishing Inc.
[transcribed from original Google Groups website on May 26, 2014]

Equal Parenting as an Election Issue?

I believe that the presumption of "Equal Parenting" - as proposed in 
PMM-483 - is a necessary condition to gaining some redress on PA 
issues in Divorce.   Without such a presumption in high conflict 
divorces, courts play "favourites" and extinguish one parents rights 
in favour of the other perpetuating a "winner takes all" solution. 
High conflict divorce is synonymous with Parental Alienation. 

With an election declared, PMM-483 will die. 

I suggest that parents who believe PA is an important Family Law issue 
press their local candidates to indicate their position on an "Equal 
Parenting" amendments to the Divorce Act. 

This fellow in Quebec is hoping to run on this issue. 
http://www.canadamotion483.blogspot.com/ 


[transcribed from original Google Groups website on May 26, 2014]

Friday, August 29, 2008

Online PA Workshop - Overcoming Parental Alienation - What Works, What Doesn’t and Why

 thought I would pass on notice of this upcoming Online Workshop on 
"How to deal with PA" by noted PA authority Dr. J. Micheal BONE at 
http://www.overcomingparentalalienation.com/class2.htm 

It looks like a useful seminar and is quite reasonable at $45 for 3x3h 
online sessions. 

Here is the "blurb": 

            - Your children refuse to see you. They hang up on you 
when you call them on the phone. If your children do 
              talk  to you, their profanity-laced tirades shock and 
destroy you. In these cases do you want to: 

             - Attend a Court-ordered therapy program with your 
children that most likely will make your bad 
               situation  worse? 

              - Engage a therapist who believes that you are an 
abusive, controlling and dangerous parent – before 
                 you even walk through the office door? 

               - Have a therapist report to the Court that your 
relationship with your children has always been damaged? 

               - Work with a therapist who believes you have never 
been involved in your children’s lives – before 
                 ever talking to you? 

               - Work with a therapist who reports biased perceptions 
to the Court as objective fact? 

                - If you want nothing more than normal relationships 
with your children, you don’t want any part of 
                  these scenarios. Yet sadly, many loving parents find 
themselves in these situations. 

                 - If you’re one of these parents, this course could 
be of significant help to you and your attorney. 

Regards, crj

[transcribed from original Google Groups website on May 26, 2014]