tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35890269099940051372024-02-22T02:15:31.527-07:00PAAN Alberta"Official Blog" of the Parental Alienation Awareness Network of AlbertaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.comBlogger139125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-3728390333907279032018-03-31T23:19:00.000-06:002018-03-31T23:19:06.583-06:00Blog ClosedEffective immediately (March 31, 2018) I will no longer be monitoring this blog although it shall remain "up" online as a resource.<br />
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Thank-you and Good LuckAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-31056761116223950442016-04-04T13:46:00.001-06:002016-04-04T13:47:01.152-06:00PAAD 2016I understand that a new Gender-Equality group in Edmonton called CAFE (Canadian Association For Equality) is planning an event for Parental Alienation Awareness Day (PAAD) on Sunday April 24 (which officially is Mon April 25)<br />
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Contact: Arnold Ferri<br />
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w: http://equalitycanada.com/project/Edmonton/Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-2135445523367304072016-03-31T14:54:00.000-06:002016-04-04T14:58:42.689-06:00Old TED Talk (from 2006) about Parental Alienation still true<span style="background-color: white; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17px;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Roboto, arial, sans-serif;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/v3YdldNXZnQ" width="560"></iframe></span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Roboto, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17px;">Dr. Harman is an Associate Professor of Psychology at Colorado State University and is the Program Coordinator for the Applied Social & Health Psychology Program. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Roboto, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17px;">She is an accomplished and awarded teacher, and has published many peer-reviewed articles and textbooks on intimate relationships, such as The Science of Relationships: Answers to your Questions about Dating, Marriage and Family. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Roboto, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17px;">Parental alienation is a devastating problem affecting millions of families around the world. Unfortunately, much like how we addressed domestic violence several decades ago, we treat parental alienation as a domestic issue rather than as a problem that affects communities, school systems, police and court systems, mental health and financial institutions, and legislative bodies. I will discuss how our social and cultural systems sanction and even promote parental alienation at the expense of our children, and what can be done about it. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Roboto, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17px;">This TED Talk was recorded in 2006.</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-91314697416906203782016-03-27T19:34:00.000-06:002016-03-27T19:34:16.594-06:00How Alberta Family Courts Function<div class="tr_bq">
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;"><i>Provincial or Queens Bench Courts</i></span></div>
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I came across <a href="http://www.complexfamilylaw.com/Articles-by-Gene-C-Colman/Procedural-Fairness-Perspective-From-a-Former-Alberta-Lawyer.shtml" target="_blank">this online article from 2010</a> that - for the starry-eyed and inexperienced - gives a pretty good overview of what to expect in Family Court (should you find yourself there - self-represented or not). I have excerpted the final paragraph below.<br />
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<h1 class="page-title" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #1d518c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; font-weight: normal; margin: 8px 0px 12px 50px; max-width: 613px; text-transform: uppercase;">
PROCEDURAL FAIRNESS PERSPECTIVE FROM A FORMER ALBERTA LAWYER</h1>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.2px;"><span style="color: #171717;">There is a lot of talk among bloggers about how Human Rights Tribunals are "kangaroo courts", and that what goes on there would never be allowed to happen in "real courts." I have news for them. </span><i><span style="color: blue;"><b>So-called "real courts" are in fact kangaroo courts; human rights tribunals are just gong shows. </b></span></i><span style="color: #171717;">And the worst of the "real courts" are family courts.</span></span></blockquote>
However that does not mean you are screwed to self-represent in Court just be very careful what you wish for - and whatever you do - do not expect any quarter to be given you if you hope to be lead through the process by a kindly judge. You will just end up being road-kill.<br />
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<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;"><i>Residential Tenancies Dispute Resolution Service (RTDRS)</i></span><br />
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<a href="http://ablawg.ca/2016/01/19/for-shame-an-obvious-and-fundamental-breach-of-natural-justice-by-the-residential-tenancies-dispute-resolution-service-rtdrs" target="_blank">Another case does show that Courts are available to properly prepared litigants to correct other, lower "tribunals"</a> as in this recent situation I reviewed in the Alberta Law Blog in a terrible mix-up at the Residential Tenancies Dispute Resolution Service (RTDRS). Here a tenant found himself not called into a Hearing by mistake of the RTDRS - yet was not afforded any way to remedy the error. It took a legal challenge to gain some degree of common-sense over a trival mistake that could have been dealt with fairly quickly if the RTDRS had exhibited some degree of initiative or introspection on the matter - but clearly felt no need.<br />
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The real concern was why they were so cavalier in their treatment of a tenant.<br />
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<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;"><i>Remedy for Contempt of Court</i></span><br />
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This is a difficult topic for Judges and they generally do not like to exercise it - which is a pity as many SRL's expect that when faced with a recalcitrant ex-spouse they can go to Court and get some help in enforcing compliance with a Court Order that has been egregiously and repeatedly breached.<br />
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Mostly we find no such luck in Family Court.<br />
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However, if you are interested in learning more about the nature and extent of Contempt of Court remedies - <a href="http://whaleyestatelitigation.com/blog/2009/11/remedies-for-non-compliance-with-court-orders/" target="_blank">here is an extensive discussion about them.</a><br />
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In this <a href="http://justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/csj-sjc/jsp-sjp/rr01_5/rr01_5.pdf" target="_blank">2001 Study of Mandatory DV Arrest Policies by the Canada Department of Justice</a> an exchange between a Judge and Witness over providing testimony was instructive of how weak the Judiciary actually can be - even when faced with a pressing need.<br />
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THE COURT: Answer the question, please, Ms. Moore.<br />Witness: I refuse to talk about it, I said.<br />THE COURT: Well, I’m directing you to answer the question , Ms. Moore.
You’ve taken the stand, you’ve been sworn.<br />Witness: Well, I already told him before I came in here I wasn’t going to
testify.<br />Crown: Your Honour, Perhaps your Honour could direct the – or advise
the witness as to her susceptibility to contempt charges if she
refuses to answer a question that is a proper question.<br />THE COURT: Ms. Moore, you’ve taken the stand, you’ve allowed yourself to be
sworn; you’ve sworn to tell the truth.<br />.......<br />THE COURT: Well, Ms. Moore, I’m really not anxious nor am I particularly
desirous of citing you for contempt; but something has – at least
the Crown is alleging that something has occurred, something
that’s serious and something that the court should be looking at.
The matter is before the court. And if people aren’t going to
testify, it destroys the whole system of justice that we have. </blockquote>
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-43611054028493400632015-11-30T00:11:00.002-07:002015-11-30T00:11:18.480-07:00National Self-Represented Litigants Resource BlogUniversity of Windsor Law Professor Julie Macfarlane began a project a couple of years ago to research the steadily increasing phenomenom of individuals self-repesenting themselves in Court - Family Court in particular. The first step was to conduct a survey of users - Judges, Lawyers and - of course - Individual Litigants (aka SRL's or Self-Representation Litigants) in Ontario, Alberta and British Columbia (whose Provincial Judicary funded her). That result was presented to various participants at numerous Legal Conferences in 2014 (and since) - drawing a generally positive response from all parties. Individual SRLs accross the country were pleased that SOMEONE other than more Lawyers were being asked their opinions on the challenges facing the Courts.<br />
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The result was an on-going committment to the project - including interactions with Provincial Judiciary, Lawyers and Self-Represnted litigants on major topics and issues - including a regular blog!<br />
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<a href="http://representingyourselfcanada.com/" target="_blank">RepresentingYourselfCanada.com</a><br />
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In that regard I would like to recommend 2 recent posts.<br />
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<a href="http://representingyourselfcanada.com/2015/11/24/beyond-the-justice-camp-debacle-when-the-public-asks-judges-to-be-accountable/" target="_blank">Beyond the Justice Camp Debacle</a> - which discusses <a href="http://www.cbc.ca/beta/news/canada/judge-removal-canadian-judicial-council-1.3314962" target="_blank">the very public scourging of a Federal Judge - Justice Robin Camp of the Alberta Queens Bench</a> over his comportment in a Rape Trial presented in a complaint to the Canadian Judicial Council (CJC) by a cadre of Law Professors from the University of Calgary (AB) and Dalhousie (NS). Apart from any comment on the complaint, it was encouraging that <a href="http://representingyourselfcanada.com/" target="_blank">RepresentingYourselfCanada</a> (SYC) pointed-out that there are BIGGER questions being raised by this complaint - specifically, is the current process for criticising Judges improving the publics confidence in our judicial system?<br />
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From the perspective of a SRL I would surmise NO - and indeed SYC notes that out of almost 500 complaints recieved from 2011-2014:<br />
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<li><i>Just 2 of 176 complaints investigated from 2011 – 2014 were upheld (about 1%)<a href="http://representingyourselfcanada.com/2015/11/24/beyond-the-justice-camp-debacle-when-the-public-asks-judges-to-be-accountable/#_ftn2">[2]</a></i></li>
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<li><i>The current complaints system at the Canadian Judicial Council is without credibility. The CJC acts as a club to protect judges from complaints, not as an investigative body.</i></li>
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<li><i>Public confidence in the judiciary is chronically damaged as a result.</i></li>
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Dr. Macfarlane makes 3 recommendations:<br />
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<li><span style="color: red;"><b>The CJC needs public representatives who participate in the oversight of judicial conduct.</b></span></li>
<li><span style="color: red;"><b>The CJC needs a transparent and user-friendly process that takes every complaint seriously.</b></span></li>
<li><span style="color: red;"><b>The CJC needs to commit to real accountability, which aims to enhance trust between the public and the judiciary, not to damage it yet further.</b></span></li>
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Another very topical issue addressed in the blog is about a trend that has apparently become recognized by SRL's in Ontario - potential abuse of Summary Judgement Procedure (SJP) by Lawyers facing SRL's. Here was how the situation presented itself.<br />
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<i>In April 2015, our attention was brought to a decision by Chief Justice Richards in Hope v Pylypow (2015 SKCA 26)<a href="http://representingyourselfcanada.com/2015/11/16/summary-judgments-the-backstory-that-may-shock-you/#_ftn1">[1]</a>, which I blogged about<a href="http://representingyourselfcanada.com/2015/11/16/summary-judgments-the-backstory-that-may-shock-you/#_ftn2">[2]</a>. Chief Justice Richards was highly critical of an earlier Chambers decision to strike the pleadings of a SRL couple finding “no cause of action” – and further critical of the conflation the Chambers judge seemed to make between a finding of “no cause” and “vexatiousness”.</i></blockquote>
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<i>We began to wonder – was an application for summary judgment emerging as an intentional strategy used by represented parties against SRLs, labeling them as vexatious and appealing to the concerns of judicial officers about SRLs “jamming up” the courts?</i></blockquote>
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<i>And if this was becoming a strategy, how successful was it?</i></blockquote>
<a href="http://representingyourselfcanada.com/2015/11/16/summary-judgments-the-backstory-that-may-shock-you/" target="_blank">Dr. Macfarlane's conclusion is troubling. </a><br />
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<i>The results suggest that SJPs are increasingly being used successfully against SRLs. And given the results we see even when we remove cases formally or informally referencing “vexatiousness” or “process abuse”, this suggests that many cases are being struck because of technical errors that are unintentional and could be addressed if SRLs had more assistance.</i></blockquote>
We note that Alberta's Associate Chief Justice - <a href="http://news.nationalpost.com/news/canada/bc-rogue-notary" target="_blank">Justice John D. Rooke - has made a name for himself in legal circles over the past few years regarding "vexatious litigants" during his well followed "Meads vs Meads" 2012 decision.</a> The decision is among the most widely requested/searched on the CANLII Online Legal database.<br />
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Hence assuming that Judges and Lawyers in Alberta would be more mindful of what constitues a truely vexatious claim - it would seem unlikely that this ploy would be sucessfully deployed in an Alberta Court. However exloiting a SRL by invoking a SJP may be more common and effective without "leaving a mark" on the unsuspecting victim.<br />
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Please subscribe to Prof. Macfarlanes blog.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-8322355493839806652015-09-17T15:21:00.001-06:002015-09-17T15:26:22.169-06:00Ryan Thomas Speaks - a PA StoryI came across this personal account of a man who was Alienated as a boy - and has/is (somewhat) recovered. Go to his channel if you want to see more of these very inspiring videos.<br />
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[I met a 52yo man this summer who told me almost the same story. He reconnected with his Dad before he past away from Cancer. He now keeps a safe emotional distance away from his mom/sisters as he felt that they never recovered from the experience and were happy to perpetuate for their own gain. He realized his loss.]<br />
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<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/vtdRzH5NRYI" width="560"></iframe>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-61657782224724468142015-09-15T14:34:00.000-06:002015-09-17T20:31:35.037-06:00Ontario FRO is subject to Ombudsman Office Review - unlike AlbertaUpon searching for an article about an Ontario Dad who was challenging the practice of FRO (Family Responsibility Office - equivalent of Alberta's MEP) to intercept Child Support payments when a creditor has been on welfare - until the "Crown Arrears" are extinguished - I found alot of material about various oversight of FRO actions. <br />
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This is interesting as - similar to other problem areas within Government like Child & Family Services - the tradition of having a Minister act as overseer seems to have failed in Alberta during the 42yr run of the Alberta Progressive Conservatives. The Ombudsman takes on that role - where politicians have failed.<br />
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1) <a href="http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/ombudsman-says-he-gets-too-many-complaints-about-family-responsibility-office-1.3170951" target="_blank">Ontario Ombudsman can investigate complaints about FRO</a><br />
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In this July 28, 2015 CBC article Andre Marin puts FRO on notice for it's poor performance over 2015/14 - no doubt exacerbated by the damaging CBC slam-job against <a href="http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/deadbeats-across-canada-owe-more-than-3-7b-in-support-1.2782955?autoplay=true" target="_blank">"Deadbeat Parents"</a> (corrected from "Deadbeat Dads" only after vociferous complaint.) in Oct 2014. It is notable that the Ontario Ombudsman Office actually tallys complaint and their status - and follows-up to see decide if they can move the issue on. <br />
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In Alberta <b><u><span style="color: red;">neither of these options exist.</span></u></b> If there is a problem you have to prove it can be escalated - normally to the very person who created the problem in the first place. This may be improved a bit by the new "Case Management" system recently put in place at MEP - but that remains to be seen.<br />
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Here are <a href="https://ombudsman.on.ca/Investigations/Selected-Cases.aspx" target="_blank">some of the most recent complaints against FRO</a> and how they were resolved by the Ombudsman's Office (various dates selected from July 28, 2015 - June 23, 2014).<br />
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2) <a href="http://www.canadiancrc.com/Family_Responsibility_Office_Ontario_child_support/Family_Responsibility_Office_Ontario-Auditor_General_Annual_Report_2010_303en10.pdf" target="_blank">April 2010 Report by Ontario Auditor General on FRO.</a><br />
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<li>80% of Telephone calls don't get answered</li>
<li>Payers and recipients do not have direct access to their assigned enforcement services officer</li>
<li>There is only limited access to enforcement staff because many calls to the Office do not get through or are terminated before they can be answered.</li>
<li>The Office is reviewing and working on only about 20% to 25% of its total cases in any given year.</li>
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<i>"At the end of our audit in April 2010, there were approximately 91,000 bring-forward notes outstanding (FRO has 190,000 Cases), each of which is supposed to trigger specific action on a case within one month. The status of almost one-third of the outstanding bring-forward notes was “open,” indicating either that the notes had been read but not acted upon, or that they had not been read at all, meaning that <u>the underlying nature and urgency of the issues that led to these notes in the first place was not known</u>. In addition, many of the notes were between one and two years old."</i></blockquote>
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<i></i><i>"For ongoing cases, the Office took <u>almost four months</u> from the time the case went into arrears <u>before taking its first enforcement action.</u> For newly registered cases that went straight into arrears, <u>the delay was seven months</u> from the time the court order was issued."</i></blockquote>
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All Alberta Ministry's release their "Annual Reports" on June 30 - the last step after finalizing the year-end on March 31 and after Budget Plans have been prepared, approved and released (usefully by April). <a href="https://www.justice.alberta.ca/publications/Pages/default.aspx?WT.svl=tabNav#about_us" target="_blank">Here are all the Financials Reports for Alberta Justice.</a><br />
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MEP is a large part of Justice Services Group which only comprises $38 million Expense allocation of the $1.25 billion budget allocation for Alberta Justice. Off-setting MEP Direct Expenses of $22 million are approximately $6 million per year in fees generated from Arrears and Late payments. The MEP Trust Account was about $11 million on March 31 and acts as a "holding tank" for payments "in transit" as received from Debtors/Payors and before forwarded on to Creditors/Recipients. It should probably bear a rough relationship to the Gross Value of payments that flow through MEP each year - likely only a week or so.<br />
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<i>Ongoing initiatives to increase regularity of payment include the following:</i><br />
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Among each department are "Performance Benchmarks" that give some measurable, tangible target. For MEP it is the Compliance Rate of Debtors meeting their required monthly payments - in this case 72% a slight drop from last year due to the Oil Price impact on Rig Workers - and below the target of 73% (p11). <br />
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Alberta's MEP has recently finished a top-to-bottom Business Process Re-engineering program to weed-out unproductive/un-clear processes and integrate with updated software procedures - so how that will work is anyone's guess. But it is noteworthy that outside "clients" were not included in anyway - typical of the know-it-all bureaucrats at Alberta Justice. But this has always been the case.</div>
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4) A discussion of the usefulness of setting targets for Compliance is conducted here - <a href="http://blogs.lse.ac.uk/politicsandpolicy/child-maintenance-arrears-why-ministers-boasts-of-success-ring-hollow/" target="_blank">in this article from the London School of Economics</a> - that points out how a very large component of Arrears are "non-collectable" bringing into question exactly what the true purpose of a collection enterprise like MEP is. In truth Arrears are not the focus for MEP - it is to maintain Compliance with current Court-ordered Support Obligations.<br />
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5) Finally, here is a Canadian Lawyers <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/andrew-feldstein/deadbeat-parents-child-support_b_5921226.html" target="_blank">views on why Arrears are a figment of most peoples imagination.</a></div>
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<a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSaUNud3ZRUjRrdjQ/view?usp=sharing" target="_blank">PDF1 - CBC Article about Andre Marin</a><br />
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<a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSU18weDZmRE5xcWM/view?usp=sharing" target="_blank">PDF2 - Ontario Ombudsman Investigations - Sept 2015</a><br />
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<a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSdFlXQmloRk5JVTA/view?usp=sharing" target="_blank">PDF3 - Ontario Auditor General April 2010 Report of FRO</a><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-68994651915759819802015-08-31T14:02:00.002-06:002015-08-31T14:32:47.988-06:00AB Case Law - PA acknowledged and action supportedI apologize for the delay but I just discovered this comment on <a href="http://ualbertalaw.typepad.com/faculty/2014/07/parental-alienation-in-ab-ct-of-app.html" target="_blank">the UofAlberta Law Blog</a> about an <a href="http://www.canlii.org/en/ab/abca/doc/2014/2014abca156/2014abca156.html" target="_blank">Alberta Parental Alienation case - Letourneau vs Letourneau 2014 ABCA 156 - from May 2014. </a><br />
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In this case Justice Sanderman was the Case Management Judge (<a href="http://www.canlii.org/en/ab/abqb/doc/2014/2014abqb5/2014abqb5.html" target="_blank">Letourneau v Letourneau, 2014 ABQB 5</a>) and he ordered that a 14yr old daughter who had been alienated from her Dad be allowed normal weekend access (Sat + overnight + Sun) as well as 10 days for summer holiday according to the Dad's Holiday schedule UN-INTERRUPTED by the Mom so they can attempt to recover their relationship - which was absent.<br />
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Mom appealed the Court Order <u><b><span style="color: red;">and it was denied!</span></b></u><br />
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<li>Justice Sanderman took over Case Management in March 2010 and signed the Divorce Judgement and Corollary Relief Order in April 2012.</li>
<li>Since the beginning the only problematic area has been the lack of a relationship between the Dad and his 2 daughters (unfortunately at the start the eldest who was 15 has now aged out of the courts jurisdiction).</li>
<li>When Case Management was established a Practice Note 7 Intervention Team was put in place.</li>
<li>Mom was not in favour of this and convinced Dad to abandon this in favour of them working something out. They could not come to an agreement and decided to try mediation which failed and then arbitration which failed. </li>
<li>In retrospect it seems to have been folly to believe that allowing Mom any control over anything would just frustrate the whole exercise.</li>
<li>In a report by the Practice Note 7 Intervention Team they said <b><span style="color: red;">"this was the worst case of parental alienation that any of the team members had witnessed."</span></b></li>
<li>The mother by design or not has turned the girls against their Dad.</li>
<li>They all act fearful of him despite spending virtually no time with him.</li>
<li>Dad was a Principal with Edmonton Catholic Schools when he retired in June 30, 2013 at age 56. He has never had any incident while a teacher or principal to merit concern over his suitability as a parent.</li>
<li><b>Standard of Review:</b> The Appeal judges note that a Court Order is highly factual and considerable deference is paid to them - especially where a Case Management Judge has been highly involved with a case for over 3 years. </li>
<li>The standard for Appeal of such an order allows for appellate intervention only where the judge below erred in law or made a material error in his or her appreciation of the facts: Van de Perre v Edwards, <a href="http://www.canlii.org/en/ca/scc/doc/2001/2001scc60/2001scc60.html">2001 SCC 60 (CanLII)</a> at para 13, [2001] 2 SCR 1014 [Van de Perre]. </li>
<li>Mom argued that "the Best Interests of the Child" had not been considered - especially the "wishes" of the child and her fear of her Dad - but the Appellate Judges disagreed. It seemed clear that the "child's wishes" were more accurately a vicarious expression of the controlling parent’s wishes which should not be taken into account in crafting an access order in the child’s best interests. Refer to Tonowski v Tonowski, <a href="http://www.canlii.org/en/ab/abqb/doc/2002/2002abqb1018/2002abqb1018.html">2002 ABQB 1018 (CanLII)</a> at para 18 for further direction. </li>
<li>Mom also argued that it seemed to be the Judges opinion that Parental Alienation existed but Dad disagreed and a member of the intervention team (Barbara Sheptycki) orally reported at a case management meeting in December 2012 that the parental alienation had worsened. Hence the Appellate Judges agreed that all evidence supported Justice Sanderman's conclusion that no progress had been made on his finding of Parental Alienation and as such see no basis for an intervention.</li>
<li>Two other objections raised by Mom were: 1) That the child should have had her own representation so her voice could have been heard and 2) Mom was surprised when the Judge ordered overnight access. Both were denied as there was ample evidence referred to in transcripts that both issues were "live" and under discussion at various points in past 2 years transcripts of Case Management and Intervention Team conferences. </li>
<li>Appeal was dismissed with Costs to the Dad to be offset against his Monthly Support obligations. <br /><br /></li>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-55430371374908734112015-08-30T13:06:00.003-06:002015-08-30T17:42:45.444-06:00Without knowing it - an Alienation story<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-51834259248644103662015-08-29T14:57:00.000-06:002015-08-31T16:52:08.199-06:00Issues in PA for Family Court Professionals - June 2014I enclose <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSZ2h0SS1sdFNBRGc/view?usp=sharing" target="_blank">this presentation</a> made in June 2014 by the New York Chapter of the Association of Family & Conciliation Courts (AFCC) in New York.
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<li>The Spectrum of Parental Alienation and Estrangement: Challenges for Mental Health Professionals, Attorneys and Courts by Bernice H. Schaul Ph.D</li>
<li>Parental Alienation: Why Courts should Intervene by Amy J.L.Baker</li>
<li>Ethical Issues Confronting the Attorney for the Child by Harriet Weinberger</li>
<li>Strategy's in Representing each Party in Parental Alienation or Estrangement Cases by Susan Bender</li>
<li>Relief Available from the Court and a Review of Significant Court Decisions by Hon. Jacqueline Silbermann (Retired)</li>
<li>The Child's Attorney and the Alienated Child - Approaches to resolving the Ethical Dilemma of Diminished Capacity by Jamie Rosen</li>
<li>DSM-5 - What you need to know about whats New and Old by Lawrence Jay Braunstein</li>
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Most of these topics are directed at Court Professionals - Lawyers, Court Experts and Judges - and provides insights and advice on the current state of knowledge about Parental Alienation and Estrangement, how Officers of the Court can address Ethical challenges of representing their cases and why Action is necessary. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-62694935979490821652015-08-28T16:53:00.000-06:002015-08-30T16:53:58.976-06:00Ten Parental Alienation Fallacies that Compromise Decisions in Court and in TherapyRecently <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/co-parenting-after-divorce/201507/recent-advances-in-understanding-parental-alienation" target="_blank">this article</a> by Canadian Sociologist and Equal Parenting Advocate Ed Kruck was in Psychology Today.<br />
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Dr. Richard Warshak of the University of Texas has just published a new paper in the journal, Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, entitled, “Ten Parental Alienation Fallacies that Compromise Decisions in Court and in <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/therapy" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at Therapy">Therapy</a>.” Parental alienation is a mental condition in which a child, usually one whose parents have been engaged in a high conflict separation, allies him or herself with an alienating parent and rejects a relationship with the other parent without legitimate justification. Warshak's article is directed not only to researchers but also to mental <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/health" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at health">health</a> professionals, and family lawyers and judges. Its purpose is to identify and correct common misconceptions about research on alienated children, and examine implications for assessment and intervention. The article contains important practice recommendations for both therapists and legal practitioners.</div>
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Dr. Warshak's starting point is the assertion is that mistaken beliefs about the genesis of parental alienation and appropriate remedies have shaped both socio-legal policy and therapeutic and legal practice in ways that have failed to meet children’s needs during and after parental separation, and therefore are contrary to the principle of the best interest of the child. The article identifies and examines ten mistaken assumptions, each in detail. Note that there is no empirical evidence to support any of the following assumptions.</div>
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Ten Parental Alienation Fallacies:<br />1. Children never unreasonably reject the parent with whom they spend the most time,<br />2. Children never unreasonably reject mothers,<br />3. Each parent contributes equally to a child’s alienation,<br />4. Alienation is a child’s transient, short-lived response to the parents’ separation,<br />5. Rejecting a parent is a short-term healthy coping mechanism,<br />6. Young children living with an alienating parent need no intervention,<br />7. Alienated adolescents’ stated preferences should dominate custody decisions,<br />8. Children who appear to function well outside the family need no intervention,<br />9. Severely alienated children are best treated with traditional therapy techniques while living primarily with their favored parent,<br />10. Separating children from an alienating parent is <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/trauma" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at traumatic">traumatic</a>.</div>
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The article provides a summary of the research on parental alienation that has emerged over the past decade. As with Warshak's (2014) article, "Social Science and <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/parenting" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at Parenting">Parenting</a>Plans for Young Children: A Consensus Report," it supports shared parental responsibility as in the best interests of most children of <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/divorce" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at divorce">divorce</a>, and as a remedy for parental alienation. It is an important contribution to <a class="inline-links topic-link active" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/empathy" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at understanding">understanding</a> the most common errors in judicial practice and social policy in this arena, as well as in mental health practice. It is the implications for intervention with children and families that should be of special interest to us.</div>
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One of the most controversial points is the last, "Separating children from an alienating parent is traumatic." Alienation and isolation by a parent in the absence of a child protection order is damaging to a child, and is itself a child protection concern. The key for children is to reunite with the alienated parent, ideally with the support of the other parent, which necessarily entails temporary separation from that parent. However, complete separation from an alienating parent may be a form of alienation in itself.</div>
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Another mistaken assumption that struck me is, "Young children living with an alienating parent need no intervention." It seems difficult to believe that such an assumption still exists, but there has been a widespread and persistent denial by some practitioners and policymakers about the reality of parental alienation. The fact that "parental alienation syndrome" is not identified in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American<a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/psychiatry" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at Psychiatric">Psychiatric</a> Association, Fifth Edition (DSM-V), for example, does not mean that parental alienation does not exist; as Warshak's consensus statement and other meta-analyses have demonstrated, parental alienation is much more widespread than is commonly assumed.</div>
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In addition, as Warshak has written, although the DSM-V has no specific diagnosis of "parental alienation," the DSM-V includes, under the heading “Relational Problems” and the sub-heading “Problems Related to Family Upbringing,” two diagnostic categories that describe children who are irrationally alienated from a parent. The first is “Parent-Child Relational Problem,” which reads, “Typically, the parent-child relational problem is associated with impaired functioning in behavioral, <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/cognition" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at cognitive">cognitive</a>, or affective domains.” Examples of impaired cognitive functioning include the domain of the alienated child’s relationship to the rejected parent: “negative attributions of the other’s intentions, hostility toward or scapegoating of the other, and unwarranted feelings of estrangement.”</div>
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The second DSM-V category descriptive of alienated children is “Child Affected by Parental Relationship Distress.” This category is used “when the focus of clinical attention is the negative effects of parental relationship discord (e.g., high levels of conflict, distress, or disparagement) on a child in the family.” Descriptions of the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral problems of children who unreasonably reject a parent in the shadow of that parent’s disparagement by the other parent clearly fit in this category. The general acceptance of the concept of unreasonable rejection of a parent as indicated in both empirical research and the DSM-V makes it difficult for professionals to maintain credibility while denying the existence of parental alienation.</div>
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Yet favored parents’ disavowal of responsibility for their children’s rejection of the other parent continues to find support among advocates who claim that the concept of unjustified parental alienation is harmful to children. They maintain that the concept of parental alienation is a legal strategy used by abusive parents to deflect blame for their children’s <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/fear" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at fear">fear</a> and hatred of them. In this view, briefly, children who reject parents always have valid reasons and all "hated parents" have no one to blame for their suffering but themselves. Such advocates deny any possibility that children’s rejection of their parents could have predominantly irrational roots.</div>
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In contrast to denial of the problem’s existence is the consensus statement on the desirability of shared parenting following parental separation for most children (Warshak, 2014). In alienation situations, favoured parents’ behavior constitutes psychological abuse when they manipulate and influence children to participate in depriving themselves of<a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/relationships" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at love">love</a>, nurturance, and involvement with their other parent. Denial of this form of abuse of children is reminiscent of society’s denial in the early twentieth century, Warshak writes, of the prevalence of physical and sexual abuse of children. The prevalence of such denial has prompted surveys addressing the issues of whether children can reject a parent whose behavior does not warrant such rejection, and whether the rejection can be due in part to the influence of the favored parent. A survey taken at the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts’ annual (2014) conference reported 98% agreement “in support of the basic tenet of parental alienation: children can be manipulated by one parent to reject the other parent who does not deserve to be rejected.”</div>
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For the child, the biopsychosocial-<a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/spirituality" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at spiritual">spiritual</a> effects of parental alienation are devastating. For both the alienated parent and child, the removal and denial of contact in the absence of neglect or abuse constitute cruel and unusual treatment. Adversarial court processes often add salt to the wound of both parents and children. This new research dispelling parental alienation fallacies thus represents a call to action. As a form of child maltreatment, parental alienation is a serious child protection matter as it undermines a basic principle of social justice for children: the right to know and be cared for by both of one's parents.</div>
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Warshak, R. (2015). Ten Parental Alienation Fallacies that Compromise Decisions in Court and in Therapy. Professional Psychology: Research and Practice.</div>
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Warshak, R. (2014). Social Science and Parenting Plans for Young Children: A Consensus Report. Psychology, Public Policy and Law.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-74424170663770589422015-08-27T16:43:00.000-06:002015-08-31T16:50:32.161-06:00Kids Come Last - The Effect of Family Law Involvement in Parental Alienation by C. Giancarlo and K. Rottmann<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Finally the <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSZ05HcUtOLUFKTTQ/view?usp=sharing" target="_blank">results of research</a> on how Court effects Families affected by Parental Alienation in Alberta and B.C. by Christine Giancarlo at Mount Royal College in Calgary is out.</div>
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<a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSZ05HcUtOLUFKTTQ/view?usp=sharing" target="_blank"><b><span style="color: red;">LINK (22 page PDF)</span></b></a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-40061661527640533812015-08-26T18:28:00.000-06:002015-08-31T18:32:12.459-06:00Australian Senator looking for Ideas on Reforming Family Law<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Australian Senator John Madigan is seeking ideas on how to Reform Australian Family Law and has set up a website to solicit options and ideas across a broad range of topics. The website is:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">Please let him know your thoughts on these issues - including of course how to stop the Courts exacerbating Parental Alienation. The Common-Law tradition unites/informs much of our practices and basic assumptions across all Western nations - so we might find alot of common cause together.</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-38869259282035233512014-09-12T09:28:00.000-06:002014-09-12T14:44:18.218-06:00Ceasing Advocatcy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Everyone,<br />
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This is just a note to acknowledge what should be obvious over the past year.<br />
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<b><span style="color: red;">I am no longer actively updating this blog.</span></b><br />
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However I will continue to maintain this blog as a Resource site (see new TAB on bar above).<br />
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All further participation on<b> Parental Alienation </b>issues will move to <a href="https://www.facebook.com/albertapaao" target="_blank">FaceBook</a> and I invite you to Friend me there. <a href="https://www.facebook.com/albertapaao">https://www.facebook.com/albertapaao</a><br />
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This reflects a couple of factors - evolving internet trends/resources, that I am moving on, involvement of other volunteers across the web and fact (I think) that awareness of Parental Alienation issues HAS improved since this journey began in 2006 (due to many combined efforts).</div>
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Of course PA still faces alot of challenges within the Family Law system - but I think they should be met with a different vehicle that this blog.<br />
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Thank-you for your past support, involvement and interest.<br />
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<b><span style="color: red;">Sept 2014</span></b> - I have added a number of new links under the <a href="http://paanalberta.blogspot.ca/p/resources.html" target="_blank">"Resources" tab</a> (see above).<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-87705453389033834412013-10-10T22:34:00.003-06:002013-10-10T22:35:34.054-06:00Webinar - Sunday Oct 27@8pm EST<center>
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<b>The Genesis of Parental Alienation<br /><a href="https://www3.gotomeeting.com/register/723383238" target="_blank">click here</a> to register.</b></center>
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Dr. Sol Goldstein, psychoanalyst and pediatric psychiatrist is a long
time clinician for alienated children. He has been at the heart of many
early and important family law cases that recognized and dealt harshly
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We are very fortunate to have Dr. Goldstein for the October webinar.
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<b>To register for a $10 fee, and receive the webinar login instructions on the day of the webinar, <a href="https://www3.gotomeeting.com/register/723383238" target="_blank">click here</a></b><br />
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Sunday June 30 at 8pm eastern time</h3>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-35814488486338105712013-06-13T08:45:00.001-06:002013-06-13T08:45:15.086-06:00Worldwide particpation in 2013 PAADHere is the current photo collage of various sites and participants in Parental Alienation Awareness Day 2013 activities around the world. I counted 25 countries including some new ones in Tunisia and Portugal. <br /><br /><iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/EGUaLjAIxd8" width="480"></iframe>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-28734636141033144622013-05-12T22:36:00.000-06:002014-04-30T09:38:59.981-06:00Daughter becomes aware her Dad has been alienating herRecently on FaceBook, a teenager - Heather - told her story about how her parents divorce caused her alot of distress. At first she went back and forth between them - but at one point the court gave Dad primary custody and so her time with Mom was reduced. Eventually Dad started to create problems that reduced her contact with her Mom even more.<br />
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This had a negative effect on Heather - she withdrew from activities she used to enjoy and in her unhappiness she felt more socially vulnerable when at school, which just seemed to make people pick on her more. It became more of an escape to spend time with her dog and riding her horse. But she soon began to realized her Dad was creating alot of the tension between her and her Mom. It got worse and Heather tried to avoid events where they were both present. Her Dad stood over her when she was on the phone to her Mom and then accused her of lying to him if she didn't tell him what he wanted to hear after returning from visits with her Mom. <br />
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Then Heather started at new High School and made some great friends. She met a boy but her Dad made that relationship very difficult - plus if she confided anything to her step-mom, she just told her Dad anyways. On the other end her one night a week with her Mom was not stressful. They went to the mall and just chatted. She could forget the unreal accusations from her Dad and gradually Heather got over her reluctance to share things with her Mom. This didn't help with Dad and her grades suffered. Dad was mad at that too - and even told her the Court would blame him for her lower marks. She tried to make things work but she felt her Dad was more and more upset with her and then he ranted at her late til late into the night.<br />
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Then her Dad said she had to tell her Mom she "didn't want to see her again EVER". Heather did what she was told but her Dad didn't prepare her what to say when her Mom started to cry and ask "Why". Heather realized that was not what she wanted but that her Dad was just using her to hurt her Mom. The next Court date the judge stopped her Thursday visits with Mom. She called her Mom from school to arrange a lunch meeting and her Mom said if Heather really did not want to see her - she would leave her alone because she didn't want to fight just to make it worse for Heather. Then Heather began to worry she would lose her Mom!<br />
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Heather felt like she was suffocating at her Dad's place. On her 16th birthday and with her friends help she moved out. A drama unfolded. <br />
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Heather got her Mom back. She is happy and she is living <u>her</u> life. Her relationship with her dad is broken - but it is on her terms. She says she still loves him but that he was aways focused on being angry and fighting with people - someone, anyone - even his own daughter. She is getting her relationships with that side gradually repaired too. And she has her Mom and a new extended family. She is happy.<br />
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Here is her story and <a href="https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSTTNxSXFRN2V6Rnc/edit?usp=sharing">also an Interview on Jill Egizi's Online Radio Show "Family Matters" dated May 8, 2013.</a><br />
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(<span style="color: red;">Update: June 17, 2013</span> - It has come to my attention that this video has been removed from YouTube - I think we can guess why. <a href="https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B5dA1IFC79hSVGdPTXZNZnMzVjA/edit?usp=sharing" target="_blank">Here is private download of 110mb mp4 file.</a>)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-73666912418872155582013-04-25T09:58:00.000-06:002013-05-01T16:35:56.369-06:00Today (April 25, 2013) is Parental Alienation Awareness Day in Edmonton!It's official. The Mayor and City Council said so!<br />
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Thanks to everyone* who attended the official City of Edmonton Proclamation by <a href="http://www.kerrydiotte.com/">Ward 11 Councilor Kerry Diotte. </a><br />
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I would especially like to thank Kerry for being such an ardent supporter of <a href="http://www.paawareness.org/">PA Awareness</a> since elected in 2009 (and will need our support if seeking re-election in Oct 2013 Municipal Elections!)<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">* (TOP L=>R: <b>Mayor Stephen Mandel</b>, Renata Ostertag, Chris Jones (hidden), <b>Councilor Kerry Diotte</b>, Barry H., Nick R., Jason Morphy, Greg Jensen, Kelly Graham, Pat MacDonald: Lower L=>R: Gloria Seamans, Cathy Benincasa, Margaret Saunter, Rena Schoepp, Victor Cherniak) </span><br />
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Thanks to Cory, Larry, Chris, Terry, Gloria, Victor, Kelly, Penny, Anton, Mark and others who came to give a hand at the Farmers Market on Saturday April 20. It was worthwhile. <br />
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On <b><u>Sat April 20</u></b> from 10am -2pm - join us down at the Old Strathcona Farmers Market 10310-83 Ave.<br />
We will have a table to display educational information about Parental Alienation.<br />
We could always use some help to answer questions and hand out the PAAO pamphlets.<br />
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On the <b>actual </b>Parental Alienation Awareness Day - <u>Thursday April 25@Noon</u> - Penny Stout was hoping to have some help for SOME KIND OF BRIEF EVENT marking the day (and hopefully a Proclamation from the City of Edmonton). Please email (stoutp3[at]gmail.com) if you want to lend a hand.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-90848182939895138352012-10-18T15:08:00.000-06:002012-10-18T15:09:07.590-06:00What are similarities between PA and Cults?An Edmonton mom - Carla Brown - <a href="http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/article/1223015--alberta-woman-on-cult-warpath" target="_blank">has been in the local/national press</a> a bit over the past few months regarding an Edmonton organization - <a href="http://www.esama.ca/">ESAMA (the Edmonton Society Against Mind Abuse).</a><br />
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She became involved with this group because of her experience with a cult in Northern Alberta. Carla now helps families who's children are mesmerized into joining these cultic groups. As quiet as it seems because we don't read about these things every day - her groups is active and she has a CableTV "deal" in the works.<br />
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By coincidence, I have encountered a cross-over between cults "psychological manipulation" and the damaging behaviour of Parental Alienation. Dr. Amy Baker (before she was completed her book "<a href="http://www.amazon.ca/Adult-Children-Parental-Alienation-Syndrome/dp/0393705196/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1350585028&sr=1-1" target="_blank">Adult Children Of Parental Alienation Syndrome : Breaking the ties that bind</a>") wrote <a href="http://fathersforlife.org/fv/the_cult_of_parenthood_1.htm" target="_blank">an interesting academic article</a> about how Parental Alienation was like "A Cult of Parenthood".<br />
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<a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/1y8_7hqFHC3m51wThgR87VfK-jRmZlk__Oda4OrP5AlU/edit" target="_blank">PDF1</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-67317463587421190742012-09-09T22:41:00.003-06:002012-09-09T22:57:15.782-06:00Interview with a (now) Adult Survivor of PAPAAO President - Jill Egizii interviews local ABC Springfield IL Affiliate News Anchor <a href="http://www.wics.com/station/news-team/#marianne-manko">Marianne Manko</a> about her experience of PA as a child.<br /><br /><iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/22755394?autoplay=1" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="300" width="400"></iframe>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17353191269138596340noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-32922614964088398472012-05-25T13:46:00.002-06:002012-05-25T13:46:49.421-06:00Wow - thank-you to all for a sucessful 2012 PAAD/BOLD<iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/5zC7uno9YyQ" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3589026909994005137.post-82008170319637771552012-05-09T03:55:00.003-06:002012-05-09T04:00:49.080-06:00PAAO Global Reach<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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Here is an old list (2010) of PAAO Global Supporters (there were 1600 then).</td></tr>
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